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Trevor Van Huizen

Memorial created 08-20-2008 by
Trevor Van Huizen
Diego J Van Huizen
May 12 2008 - May 13 2008

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09-27-2008 11:13 AM -- By: Reba,  From: Massachusetts  

What a lovely memorial for your beautiful son Diego.  I am so very sorry for your loss.  Diego sure was a little fighter and he is so, so lucky to have such wonderful parents.  I love the music you have chosen for Diego's memorial, especially the song from Final Fantasy X.  It is all so appropriate. 

09-27-2008 1:19 AM -- By: Penny Daly,  From:  

Dear Trevor and Zigee,

Mom sent it to me today. You did a beautiful job on the website. Remember that you are still in my thoughts and prayers.



09-26-2008 8:59 PM -- By: Cindy Carlon,  From: Ottawa Area Center, Zeeland, MI  

What an awesome memorial for your son.  Thank you for sharing it.  God bless you both as you continue to heal and take each new day as it arrives. 


Cindy Carlon

09-26-2008 12:38 PM -- By: Judy & Rog,  From: Michigan  

Please remember how much we love ALL of you!

09-15-2008 6:57 PM -- By: carlos luna,  From: ILLINOIS  


09-15-2008 1:03 PM -- By: Melody,  From: Phoenix  

Dear Zegee and Trevor,

You have created a beautiful memorial to your precious baby boy Diego. He was blessed to have been so wanted and so loved. You are wonderful parents.

I hope time helps heal the pain.

With love,


09-10-2008 4:23 PM -- By: Brenda Larison,  From: Phoenix  

I just want to let you know how moved I was by this memorial.  I appreciate all the time and effort you put into making this an ongoing tribute in memory of Diego.  I feel much closer to both of you and have a much better understanding of all the joys, pain and grief you have experienced.  I laughed at some of the writings and picutres, but most of all, I cried - I cried with you through this terrible loss.  I want to thank you for the do's and don'ts - I will try to remember that talking and sharing what is happening in our lives, will strenghten us and make us closer.  I will return to this website often to keep Diego's memory ongoing.  I love and miss you both! - Brenda

09-09-2008 4:09 PM -- By: marti monti,  From:  

Hi, Zegee and Trevor

You have done a beautiful job with this memorial.  I think of you often.  Your list of do's and don'ts is quite helpful.  As I said before, Diego wasn't here long but still made a difference and changed lives for the better.   I also believe without great sorrow there cannnot be great love.  You've certainly experienced both.  You are amazing examples for us all to learn from.  Your openess brings such insight and comfort  to others  that don't have the wisdom you've displayed  in your choice to be so open.  Wounds always seems to heal best when allowed to breath......you bring hope and love to us all.  This is what faith looks like.  I continued to pray for you.  Continue to love each other......God bless

09-04-2008 10:56 PM -- By: Sandy,  From: Michigan  

What a wonderful memorial you have here for your precious son Diego.  I am so sorry for your loss.  I wish I would have been able to be with my precious Kaylynn and hold her while she passed so she wouldn't have been alone.

09-03-2008 2:28 AM -- By: Victoria,  From: Los Angeles, CA  

I am so sorry, so sorry for your lost. You are in my prayers. I can't stop crying, I wish I can take your pain away. Know that your baby boy is always with you. God bless you!

09-01-2008 10:11 PM -- By: Anna-Lizza ,  From: Los Angeles, CA  

I'm sooooo sorry that your little boy is not in your arms where he belongs.  I pray that God will continue to give you and your family peace and comfort.  I'm certain that Diego has already met my little man Joshua and are now playing in God's beautiful and majestic garden.   

09-01-2008 6:03 PM -- By: Jennifer,  From: Gilbert  

Zegee and Trevor,

Thank you for sharing your experiences, as they have been quite difficult. May this be a wonderful tool for healing....

Much love and infinite blessings,


09-01-2008 12:15 AM -- By: Lenee' Jones,  From:  

Trevor and Zegee,

I'm so very sorry for your loss. Thank you for being brave enough to share Diego's story with us. It took me a very long time to create a site for my son. Trevor, I think you are such a great daddy. This site you have put together is just amazing! My heart is broken for you. Everything you have said is exactly what we went through. It's the hardest time you will ever go through. It's just not fair! I know your baby is so very proud to have been born to such greart parents.

whatch over you mommy and daddy Angel Diego. Keep your arms around them through these very hard times.

Lenee' jones

p.s. Diego looks like his daddy lol

08-28-2008 1:56 AM -- By: Karen Pelletier,  From:  

Dear daddy and mommy to precious little angel Diego,

As I look at this beautiful, loving memorial of your son tonight, my heart aches into a million pieces. I am so sorry for the loss of your precious son Diego. You both will be in my thoughts and prayers.

I also lost my child. She was 21 years old. Her name is Kristy. She was diagnosed with a very rare disease, the end of May, 2007. She went into the hospital to have surgery to restore blood flow to her brain on June 18, 2007. She passed away from brain death one week later on June 25th, 2007 from so many complications. It is so very hard to see your child slowly die in front of you and there is nothing you can do to stop it. We felt so helpless to help our precious daughter Kristy. I know what you both are going through in this very difficult time.

It has been a little over a year since my daughter passed away and it is still so very hard today, as it was 1 year ago.

Just know you are not alone in your grief for your son Diego. We all feel your pain. I see all your pain in your pictures, as you both hold your precious son. As I see you hold your son, I see myself holding my daughter in my arms, as the ventilator was unplugged and she passed on. It was so hard to leave her body there. It was the hardest thing I ever had to do in my life, to leave her there.

Always know you can count on me for support. We all need so much love and understanding, as we try to cope and survive the loss of our precious children. Every day is a daily struggle to survive the loss of our loved ones.

Just know you will be in my prayers and please feel free to visit my daughter Kristy's memorial site. God bless you both and your precious little son Diego!!

With love, Kristy's mom, Karen

08-27-2008 4:47 PM -- By: krystal avant,  From: lake whitney  

you baby is soo handsome and i am so terrably sorry for your loss. my family will pray for yours. i know how it feels to loose someone so close to you even though you barley knew them. again im sorry for your loss.

08-27-2008 4:35 PM -- By: desta,  From: Sandusky,Ohio  

I am so very sorry  to hear of your loss,God picked the two of you to be his parents if only for a lttle while, What  a precious gift.......I'll keep you in my prayers.......desta

08-27-2008 11:55 AM -- By: ,  From:  

Trevor and Zegee,

I am so sorry for the tragic loss of your precious Diego. This site is so full of love for your son. The pictures are touching and heartbreaking. I know the pain of losing a child, and it is unfair and unbearable. I am so glad that you had a few moments with your son, to hold him and love him, though not long enough...only a lifetime would be long enough.


Dara, mom to Maya Eliana, also here on VM

08-27-2008 10:40 AM -- By: Melinda (MISS),  From: NY  

Wonderful memorial for your son. I am so sorry for your loss that had to be endured. Prayers are with you always.

08-26-2008 11:09 PM -- By: Danielle Nicole Vaughn,  From: Fremont, MI  

I love you both very much and know that good things are coming for you. 

08-26-2008 11:08 PM -- By: Pam Carrie,  From: California  

Dear Trevor & Zegee,

I can feel your sorrow so vividly.  What a huge loss to lose your son after only one day of life!  I am so sad for you both and for those who love you and Diego.  Please do not give up on parenthood.  With so much love in your hearts, you were both meant to share the joy of raising a child.  I feel that you will again have a child who will learn so much from you in the future.  My husband and I were married 11 years before we had our first child, a son.  Four years later we were blessed with a beautiful daughter, but she has required three open heart surgeries due to a congenital hart defect.  Now at age 25, she is a social worker & living a happy, active life.  Life has so many seasons of both joy and sorrow.  This sadness will be with you always, because you will always love Diego, but there will be seasons of joy again.  

Much love,  Pam

08-26-2008 10:05 PM -- By: Tim and Susan Parke,  From: Phoenix  

You know we love you both and little Diego dearly. Thank you for having the strength to share his beautiful story with us.

He will always be missed,

but I promise you,

Diego will NEVER be forgotten.

08-26-2008 12:13 PM -- By: Linda Saville,  From: Phoenix  

I am very touched by this memorial, and so very sorry for your loss.  Thank you for sharing this with us.

08-26-2008 10:14 AM -- By: Debbie(from MISS),  From: Phoenix  

Zegee and Trevor,

This site, in loving memory of your precious son Diego is so beautiful.  Thank you for sharing your son and your hearts with me.

Debbie (Sarah Jean's Mommy)


08-26-2008 7:48 AM -- By: Jason,  From:  

Trev and ZG, my heart's with you.  Day and night.  Sunup and sundown.  All my love, -Jay

08-26-2008 7:43 AM -- By: Glenn (apollo),  From: Florida  

Trevor & Zegee,

Your son is beautiful, and he has the most courageous and loving parents.

08-26-2008 2:53 AM -- By: Chuck,  From: Hawaii  

I am so sorry for the loss of your son Diego. Even at seven and a half months you can see how special he was and is. As a grieving father myself, I was glad to see another father who was having many of the same feelings and emotions that I am going through everyday. My son Colton passed away seven months ago. He was 3.5 months old and he passed away at his first full day at the sitters house. I am lost right now. Strength is hard to come by. Days are just days. Like I'm here because I have to be. I could feel the pride you had for your son, and that was the same pride and love that I had for Colton. My son was my world, so what happens when that world is destroyed? I just wanted to let you know that I am here too, and you, your family and Diego are in my thoughts tonite.

08-26-2008 2:30 AM -- By: Deanna,  From: Phoenix  

Trevor and Zegee,

I just wanted to let you know I was thinking of you both tonight and missing your precious Diego with you. I'm so sorry that we ended up meeting each other for this reason. But I'm glad that we can maybe help each other through it.

In their memory, Deanna

08-26-2008 1:37 AM -- By: Rebekah,  From: California  

I am so sorry to hear about the trajic accident that you and your family had to experience. I wish only the best for you and your wife. I pray for you and everyone that surrounds you. What wonderful friends and family you must have. I also have lost a set of twins in Aug of 04 at 32 weeks pregnant and in Feb of 08 i lost my daughter when i was 39 weeks pregnant. Please if you ever need someone to talk to i am here. I am a parent who knows how bad it hurts to lose a child. I send my deepest condolences.

08-26-2008 1:30 AM -- By: Barbara,  From:  

Since my father passed away, I spend many days reading memorials.  I find it comforting to know that my father is surrounded by so many wonderful angels, such as your son Diego.  While my father lived many years on this Earth, and can share some wonderful stories, I believe that Diego can share some wonderful stories also, despite the fact that he was so young.  Some people have older souls, and for some reason, I feel that Diego had a soul such as this...

As his father, your words are so full of love, inspriation, intelligence, thoughtfulness, and wonder.  As eloquent as you are, it only stands to reason that your son would be the same.  This is one of the most wonderful memorials I have ever read.  It gives such insight to such a beautiful baby boy.  He may have not been on this earth for very long, but your memories of him, and what you've shared with us here, will live on forever.

Thank you so much for sharing him with us.  You have touched my heart.  I'm so sorry for your loss.

God Bless you and your beautiful wife.  May God hold your beautiful Diego in His loving hands for eternity.

08-26-2008 12:38 AM -- By: Laurie-Beth,  From: MISS Foundation  

Trevor and Zegee,

I am so very sorry your precious Diego died.  Your memorial site is a beautiful tribute to both him and the strength of your family...Thank you for sharing it...


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